Someone Defined Friendship for Me

I started writing this blog entry on September 21 this year. This was supposed to be my first entry but I thought that it was not saved when I started writing it. Good thing it is still in my drafts folder.

I never thought that I’ll have my own blog. Well, I guess when you have nothing to do, you’ll just try anything to kill time. hehe.

I guess that my first blog should be something about a friend who I really love.

I had my own experience on cheating, and I would say that cheaters should really go to hell. They are good for nothing and they deserve severe punishment.

But, cheating seems to have levels. in my opinion, acts of cheating can be classified as either forgivable or unforgivable. The forgivable cheating includes acts like dating with someone who is not your partner, or maybe kissing someone who’s not your bf or gf. In other words, this category includes all romantic actions done with someone outside a romantic commitment except sex. Well, sex outside the bounds of that commitment defines the unforgivable category.

When I caught shit (sorry, can’t call him my ex) with another woman, I was really devastated. That day, I went to his apartment so that we could fix the problem that we had a couple of days ago, but when I arrived there, I found a blouse on his bed and a suitcase. The maid confirmed that he is with another woman.

At that moment, I didn’t know what to do, so I called my friend, the friend that I missed when I started writing this blog. I can’t remember the exact words that I said to her but I remember that I shouted a lot on the phone. She went to shit’s apartment with his bf to take me home. And she was there when I confronted the shit.

I wish that I just flushed that shit in the toilet, but at that moment my emotions overpowered me. Lucky me, my friend and his bf were there so I was able to go hoe safely after the terrible incident.

Of course, my friend’s role didn’t end there. She didn’t leave my side as I went through a lot of emotional struggle because of what happened. She was there all the way until I finally was able to get up and be stronger than ever.

Nowadays, I don’t have the chance to talk to her as much often as I did when I was in college. The last time i saw her, there were a lot of unnecessary people around, so I was not able to have a real bonding time with her.

I really miss her.